Who owns a man Mother or wife?

Who really owns a man? His mother or wife?ARGUMENT-{mother}- my son must obey me Unless he didn't suck my breast 4 1yr, {wife }-he sucks mine now nd sucked it 4 more den 5yrs nd is stil sucking -{mother}- I carried him for nine months.{Wife}- He was only 3.5kg den,so what's d bigdeal? I carry him evry nite nd he is 85kg now.{Mother}-he passed between my legs wit pains {wife}-hahaha, he only passed der once, he stays between my legs like everyday nd I scream wit pains each nite.plss WHO OWNS A MAN? Tell me ur answer. first send to ur friends to see their responds. Don't spoil the fun plssss